BEING RAISED TO BE GENDERLESS???

I am utterly shocked with a statement made by a couple from Toronto where they wanted to raise their infant genderless. They kept a secret and did not write down the gender of the baby. Bad enough their other two kids (boys) are having these mentality where they can choose their own gender. The parents are actually exposing not bad but HORRIBLE perceptions and way of life. Imagine life with thousands like them?

Despite not being Muslims. In Christianity, this kind of behavior is also forbidden in the religion itself. It is unacceptable to most religions and cultures. Maybe some will say, it is my body. Therefore, it is up to me who I want to be. But this is not the case. Once you grow up (focus on non - Muslims), that is fine with me ( may be the person has decided that) but to be teaching this to kids??? Think back and think wisely! Bad enough they are home - schooled. I believe when it comes to knowledge, we have to broaden our mind with different perceptions and not just rely on one. If their kids are home - schooled, they will think that whatever the parents told them are right - no doubt about it. The wrong things could be right and vice versa. Accordance to that, they will or could experiencing low self-esteem and entry shock could be the lead to everything when they grow up (so lari tajuk - we will discuss on home-schooled later on)

I have no idea why I am so caught up with this issue. But it really pisses me off - not literally though. It is unfair for the kids. I have been living for 20 years and I have never heard of such thing. THIS IS ABSURD!!!

TRAVELLiNG

Travel. Travelling. Who doesn't love to travel? I am sure most of everyone love to travel. Either it is a long journey or a short one. As travelling can be such fun, it can also become nuisance and can cause unnecessary tantrum among the travelers. When does this exist? or happen? Yes! Exactly! Before the journey itself. This usually happens within a family (my point of view of course). Why am I saying this?

Ladies and Gentlemen prepare for the unexpected (biase je sebenarnye)

1.  Your mother keeps telling you to pack your bag over and over again

2. You tend to dilly dally

3. Your mother is still under the state of endurance

4. Again tells you to start packing because you are only left with a week. Even gives you a list of things to bring

5. You start packing in a slow mode

6. Your mother is about to go to the next stage - FURIOUS

7. Only 5 days left. Now your mother has to do all the preparations

8. Your father is busy doing something which has got nothing to do with the travelling (sleeping and watching TV)

9. Your mother suddenly is having high blood pressure because she keeps yelling to your younger siblings regarding the work they have to do

10. Your youngest sibling keeps throwing all sorts of silly questions towards your mother

11. TANTRUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

12.Suddenly  all the packing thingy is under control or is done

13. Everything is back to normal

14. HOLD ON!!!! Another crisis is on the way.

15. You forget to pack one of the most important thing. TOILETRIES.

16. Back to square one. (given the list and still lupe - lagi la kene marah)

TO LEND OR NOT TO LEND???

Salam,

To Lend or not to Lend??? This is like a NOT BIG, NOT HUGE but GIGANTIC question, issue, dilemma, whatever you guys call it these days.

You can borrow your friends stuffs. I have no problems with it. Even I have no problems with my friends borrowing my stuffs. But sometimes you have your limits! Remember it is not YOURS - it is your FRIEND's. Come to an end, I feel like having this deepest, darkest place to put all of my belongings. So that no one would dare take it! But that would've be mean (and I don't want to be a meanie me).

Here are few common things asked to borrow from    

If you have the chick to ask for something from someone. Then you must take a good care of it!!! Do not let it be like this!!! 

Or these will eventually happen

THE ONLY CHiLD

Salam,
Being the only child in family is usually something that those with siblings would DIE for. And why is that?

1.Tired with all the mess done by siblings

2. Tired of your life being scrutinize by your siblings

3. Tired with all the repetitive questions (if you are the eldest)

4. Tired of quarrellings (sometimes the reasons are unnecessary)

5. Tired of THEM (on and off activity)

While the only child in a family is DYING to have, own, get etc siblings. And why is that?

1. Tired of being alone (no playmate)

2. Tired of being too free (no peeping tom)

3. Tired of being too relax (need to have someone to fight with)

4. Tired of being self-centered (need to share, divide the LOVE with others)

5. Tired of serenity (LOUD is what they want)

Other thing, is it true that being married with the only child is NIGHTMARE? (that's what they told me). They said that the parents will have hard time letting their kid go. Does that mean you have to stay under one roof with the parents although you are married? Well, is this fact or just another typical myth. Passed from mouth to mouth. Some may be. But in this new era...really?  

LONG TIME NO SEE

Long time no see. Sudah lama tidak jumpe.

I just reunited back with my (guess who), PLKN mate! Mimi! It has been a long long long time since we see each other. She was the first girl I talked to. She was a nice and sweet girl. We chat for a while just now. I was given a surprise by her! She is now married and have two lovely kids! OMG!!! She got married a few months after got back from PLKN. Well, I cannot really question that. It is faith. Her time has come. Now is me! hehee... I am aiming for 26 or 27 years old. I can always plan but the future is in Allah's hand.

Guess that's all for now ;)

There is this thing. It is said that on earth our husbands or wives are our match. But let say, (we are not praying for this) if either the husband or the wife end up in hell (neraka) instead of heaven (syurga). Our partner will get a new partner and that is his or her real match (not the one during our life times). 

IGNORANCE

Salam,

Not ignorance, but ignorance of ignorance is the death of knowledge.

Alfred North Whitehead 

If ignorance is indeed bliss, it is a very low grade of the article.

Tehyi Hsieh 

Everybody is ignorant, only on different subjects.

Will Rogers

Ignorance is no excuse-it's the real thing.

Irene Peter

Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity.
Martin Luther King, Jr.

Admiration is the daughter of ignorance.
Benjamin Franklin

I say there is no darkness but ignorance.
William Shakespeare

Despite of all the quotes above. In Islam; IGNORANCE = NO TOLERANCE. Education, knowledge, information etc. is vital to each of us. A man with no knowledge is like a man with no clothes. What is the point of having a lot of outputs if you don't have any inputs? Even, it is stated that Satan is more afraid of people who have knowledge rather than nothing. Knowledge can change people in a sec. When you have the knowledge, you will have the ability to think what is right and what is wrong.       

Rainy Rainy Day

Rain rain....

Go away...

Come again some other day...

Little Tommy wants to play...

Remember this nursery rhymes? (nursery rhymes kn). well at the age of mine, i wouldn't bother to sing this anymore. why not? duh...me <3 rainy day!!! i am no longer an infant or in primary where i need to have a perfect  evening in order to play with my friends. rainy day is a perfect day! it is like an "ideal" day for me... to snuggle in my BED! with my BIG TEDDY, bantal boosook and whatever you called it. unless you are the active person who just have to go for jogging every single day. no worries for me, i have a treadmill nicely situated in front of my TV. i think that will work for me. 

That's all for this post!;) 

P/S - it is raining heavily outside. tu yg tulis 2...

  Squinny and my teddy ofcourse

Do you eat to live or live to eat?

Ya Allah... Please do not be like us! hahaha... mengikut sunnah Rasulullah kita kene berhenti sebelum kenyang. Meaning to that ~ you eat to live! Not the other way round.

"ABBREVIATIONS"

Abbreviations are widely used these days. In text messages, in chatting, in writings and even in conversations. But, how far does this is used correctly. I mean, we keep on shortening every single thing to an extend where people don't get it at all. Therefore, let me enlighten you to some of the "abb" used :     


STFU     SHUT THE F*** UP


NOYB     NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS


MYOB    MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS 


KMA       KISS MY ASS


BAB1     (WELL, EVERYONE KNOWS THAT)

IDGD      I DON'T GIVE A DAMN

GTH       GO TO HELL


Wonder why you haven't heard some of them? because I used them! Yes, caught red handed. So, anyone who ever got this right to your face. I am sorrreee :)

A BLOG???

A blog??? Is this for real. I had this kind, like the last two years and I did not do any updates on it. Out of nowhere, I am creating a new one. Yes it is 4.21am. I am aware of that. No need to remind me that it is time to sleep. The main 'objective' of me making this blog is BECAUSE most of my friends have it too. Boohoo! So what? I am not allowed to copy my friends now? (I am so getting cuckoo). I have been trying to reach this guy since 11.43pm last night. Seems like his ringing phone is not LOUD enough for him to ANSWER it! URGHH!!! Yes, I am getting a little bit TWITCHY (a lil' bit you said - more like a barrel of KFC).

Before I go on and yap about things that even I have no clue. Let just say, this blog will be for REAL! I mean, going to commit on doing it. No Point of creating a new blog every month and end up in a trash! So, nighty nite! Gotta go to bed now!